Graham Coxon Embroiled in Bitter Divorce with Ex Soraya Coxon

Blur guitarist Graham Coxon is in the midst of a bitter, gruelling UK High Court divorce battle with his wife, Soraya "Essy" Coxon. 

On September 19 2024, Mr. Coxon attended an interim hearing at London’s Royal Courts of Justice, presided over by Mr. Justice Peel, regarding his separation. Both Mr. Coxon, represented by Rosanne Godfrey-Lockwood, and Mrs. Coxon, represented by Michael Glaser KC, were identified in the proceedings, though the judge has prohibited publication of specific case details.

A follow-up hearing is expected in the coming months.

Coxon’s professional life remains high-profile as Blur recently completed a world tour, including two monumental performances at Wembley in 2023. The band, which includes Damon Albarn, Alex James, and Dave Rowntree, continues to thrive with a legacy of 13 UK top 10 singles and seven chart-topping albums.

While Coxon’s personal life has been challenging, he has found renewed happiness and inspiration with musician Rose Elinor Dougall. 

Dougall, the granddaughter of respected BBC newsreader Robert Neill Dougall and singer in The Pipettes, and Coxon share both a romantic and musical partnership as the duo behind The WAEVE. They released their latest album, City Lights, in September and are also parents to a two-year-old daughter Eliza May.

Coxon’s marriage to Soraya 'Essy' Coxon reportedly began to dissolve around 2020 with rumours of him meeting Rose Elinor Dougall at the same time during a London charity concert, which led to a period of emotional turmoil. 

Reflecting on the experience, he recently shared with The Times: “It was extremely traumatic. That’s when I knew I needed therapy.”

Graham Coxon with his ex-wife Soraya 'Essy' Coxon

The guitarist eventually returned to the UK, where he connected with Dougall. Their relationship began as a creative collaboration but soon blossomed into romance and family life. 

“I didn’t know what I was going to be doing,” Coxon recalled. “I had just gone through a big loss of confidence, so I liked the idea of working with someone who could sing and play piano and take the strain a little bit. I don’t think either of us expected it to go the way it did.”

Known for his reserved and socially awkward nature, Coxon admitted that Dougall’s lively, outgoing personality has helped him open up. 

“I’ve always been socially awkward, which is why it’s great going out with Rose because she’s lively and she enjoys the moment,” he explained. 

Looking back, he added, “For years I was the snarling person in the corner, hiding in a pub in Camden. I was the problematic Blur boy.”

This news comes around the same time when Damon Albarn, Coxon's long-time friend and bandmate from Blur, separated from his long-term partner Suzi Winstanley. 

Where Are The Blur Members Now?

From Britpop legends to diverse adventurers, the members of Blur have charted unique paths since their '90s heyday.

As of 2024, the members of the iconic Britpop band Blur have been engaged in various individual projects and activities, following their recent band activities.

Damon Albarn, Blur's charismatic frontman, has been particularly active in various musical endeavors. After Blur's first reunion in years and the release of their latest album "The Ballad Of Darren," Albarn announced a break for the band. He has hinted at concentrating on an opera set to be presented in Paris and is also planning to work on a new Gorillaz album, following the success of 2023's "Cracker Island," which featured collaborations with several big names in the music industry.

After the recent reunion and release of their album "The Ballad of Darren," Albarn has announced that Blur will be going on hiatus. He expressed that continuing with Blur at this point is "too much" for him, although he didn't rule out the possibility of reuniting with the band in the future. His decision reflects a desire not to dwell on the past but to explore new creative avenues.

Graham Coxon, the band's guitarist, has also been involved in his own projects. Apart from his contributions to Blur, Coxon has a reputation for his solo work, which showcases his versatility as a musician and an artist. He has released solo albums that highlight his expansive musical range beyond the Britpop genre that Blur is famous for​.

Alex James, Blur's bassist, has taken a unique path post-Blur. Known for his distinct style and musical prowess during the band's heyday, James has ventured into the world of food. He started a cheesemaking business and became a food writer for The Times. This transition from music to gastronomy showcases his diverse interests and talents beyond the music industry​.

Dave Rowntree, the drummer, has explored a different kind of public service following his music career. He became a Norfolk City Council member and has made attempts to gain a parliamentary seat in various constituencies. He also obtained a law degree after his time at Blur. This move into politics indicates his interest in public service and community involvement, diverging significantly from his musical background​.

As you can see, the members of Blur have each taken distinct paths following their success in the band. While they have come together occasionally for music, their individual pursuits reflect a broad range of interests and talents, from operatic compositions and graphic novels to cheesemaking and politics.

Their varied careers are a testament to their versatility and ability to reinvent themselves beyond the realm of Britpop.